KAZEY JOURNAL

Firstly a lot of people actually get the idea of friendship entirely wrong, from my own personal perspective. When it comes to friends, I honestly can count them. One , Two. I only have two people, I can call my friend. That wasnt hard? well so it is. I do have a problem, and so do everybody out there. But my problem is quite unique, My problem is I find it hard to make friends and also to keep mum about something bothering me. One reason for the later which is making friends is because people cant tolerate my openess and sincerity (I always speak my mind), some people call it “pride” (wierd)? and the second reason because I dont just pick friends from the streets. But for the previous, that is speaking my mind, comes from the part of who is really me that can never be seperated from me, its part of what makes me, me.

You have to be ready to be my friend, as in the relationship has to build up, from you tolerating me and I also tolerating you over a long period of time. Which means you do appreciate me for who I am, and I also do appreciate you, for who you are and thus the real meaning and purpose of being friends is should I say “established”? and this comes from a lot of tolerance, understanding and appreciation. Tweaking who is me, to suit your needs does not arise at all, which means I dont expect you to tweak yourself, just be you, and I would appreciate that fact. Not something that is possibly achieved in a day. It takes months or even years, and thats why I said I only have two friends. Tolerance and appreciation is very important, otherwise I would just rule that association as an abject hypocrisy relationship, to satisfy you or the other person’s needs. We do not need to suck up to make friends, we can just be colleagues, or even what i call the “knowant” you know me, I know you situation. its quite easy and simple. We can talk when we need to, share ideas when we need to, but dont expect me to be there for you when you need me, and all that rubbish as in I have to do things to please you. I am really sincere about that. nothing to hide. This is because you are not my friend, and you are just like any other person out there, If I do help you please consider it as charity, it is that simple.

Now this so called friends of mine, what do we share? Everything entirely and we do not even quarrel over things. Our misunderstandings end with just the blabberings and we are back to another subject and life goes on. Well works for me that way.

Do we need a lot of friends in our lives? I would say Nope, because friends are troubles, and I know a lot of people know that. But why do you then accumulate trouble if you know they are one? I really dont understand that. Well human nature I suppose. And so it is.

My friendship life is very simple, and I honestly enjoy it. Is there anything like friendship life? Dont ask me? But I said it? hmmm its my blog . hehehehe.

My exams finished today, and to all that wished me the best, I really appreciate it. Thank you.

So what does this mean? Hmm I got 5 items in my task list. This includes.
1. Work on nairainvest.
2. Re-customise a partnered blog that I am about to start making some dough hopefully from.
3. Work on my hosting company, especially our services, and also on my windows server too. Packages of the windows server might increase due to the high cost of maintainance.
4. Adds some touches to naijacard.
5. Continue with the work on nigerianbloggers.

So Help me God.

My exams are approaching and therefore I am going offline for 3 weeks, which means no more chatting, forum contribution, blogging, group contribution etc. But nevertheless I would try to be reading my emails atleast twice a day, In the morning and at night. And Also Nairahost support would still be active. So Clients dont worry, everything is under control. Besides that, all my online activities would reduce till next month, when I am coming back in Full Force to implement most of the solutions, that have been affected due to school work and hussles. So hmm, if you think I am slow, think again…............hehehe

So this would be my last blog entry for this month, till next month. So guys wish me luck. I am off to prepare for my exams which would begin on the 26th of this month. Bye.

Life has not been that less boring? I wonder !!. Well really I dont know about the possibilty of the existence of any other person out there living the same type of life I have been living, since I decided to look for the ….......

Imagine 6 hours on the computer, minimum everyday, plus lectures of an average of 4 hours daily except weekends, plus an additional 2 hours ++ maintaining online business, my blog and other stuffs. And other hours doing things I best know of. Now Studying? How do I read my books, with all this responsibilities around my neck? I actually do read sha. When I am in the mood. But I dont classify reading online journals or news reading o.

Did I just say responsibility? “Abeg” I am not married o. Thank Goodness I dont have a girlfriend currently to add to the troubles. I find it difficult to maintain one. I even forgot the technical part of my life, supporting clients and friendship chattings via chat clients. I sleep an average of 4 hours a day. School grades are kindda ok and maneageable sha :P. Goodness what A Life besides. Well suprised? yes, Kayode is getting very personal for the first time in his blog. Revealing his Life….......

Well my life is a screwed up life. I really do need to fix it up as soon as possible. Hmm? Whatelse? Ah today, I actually took some pics of the surroundings of my residence although my camera batteries went low, when I came to the poolside. Dem I hate that. I would do that maybe next weekend. I would update with the link to the pictures I took. Once I get something to fill my stomach.

So I need help guys out there? How do I fix up, this screwed up life? Abeg make una flood my comments with any rantings. Anything o….....I need to fix it up as soon as possible. Or do you think it is a normal life? hmm I really dont think so.

I have really been having a lot of headaches of recent, on the issue of the Nigerian bloggers network, not because of the listings this time, but because some people think, I might be a possible threat to their portals existence, in the sense of future traffics. I think that shouldnt be a problem, all he needs to do is to work on his online skills in terms of attitude and the way he has choosen to express himself, besides his so called “Leadership” skills which had led to conflicts with his members and other online pals that he tags “Failed Friends” of recent and of the past.

And by that, does it mean, I should be getting nasty comments in my blog from him in relation to old forgetten posts? I have forgotten they even existed!!. Besides he insisting that I should enlist him before in the aggregator, though he does not meet upto the criteria of getting listed, Now, he is asking me to link him from my blog, I said sure (infact I had him linked before), but I am currently busy. But the mails keep on coming and coming. And really they are pissing me off.

This is after the same person calls me a “Mad Man” in his supposed Journal. Why would you want a Mad man to link you? Well I am really tired and fedup of all this rubbish. I had to tell him to “keep off my online portals”, if he cant just, accepts its existence.

I know he said, he was Jelous, but shouldnt it just end there? He is such an idiota and a sadist, if I might call him that, that he wouldnt just stop at anything to discourage me, from whatever I am doing. I am really getting frustrated. He is indeed a pest in my life.

I woke up around 3am this morning, and well I was supposed to have a meeting at 4am with Owukori and Edward, but as I started with my normal daily routines, first check my mails, second check my server and third check my offline messages, I discovered that I could only connect to sites, starting with www, and that was not even certain, I couldnt access some sites at all, especially the subdomain ones starting with http:// only.

That means I couldnt access my mails at google. I opened MRIC , I tried to connect and still as I am talking, I cant. Went to my internet login page, I tried to re-connect, It did connect but the problem is still there. Now Internet why are you doing this to me ? I wondered. I think I would have to call the internet guys later in the morning, but today is Independence day, and I hope they would come to work.

I am really pissed, I dont know what to do. My hands are currently tied. I cant browse to sites that are subdomain based. I am really fedup. I was even welcome by my body system with Flu, I hate flu.

Is it DNS related? I really dont know

I went to Alamanda, today with Marseille, and we shopped like nuts. The cart was actually quarterful. Well after that, we decided to take some pictures, which i have already uploaded some. Check it out and please comment. It is dark, but atleast we are not that invisible. hehehe
The pictures

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Well the world is turning into something else. I really don’t have futher comments. Do you have one?

Well i was actually doing my laundry today, and i was thinking what the hec, i mean this is indeed laziness in disguise, cos they were actually just 3 pairs of socks i was washing :P. hehehe . yeah i know. well so as i was saying, i was too lazy, and besides do i even have a bucket? argh havent bought one this semester. poor me. hehehe.

I know i am lazy. yeah yeah. and by the way i am kindda back online, but not fully because this semester is a bit hectic . And hum i forgot some stuffs at home in KL . hum well its all good.

Well actually nothing much so to say. The crazy 2 months vacation, and also the chunk of coding and customization, here and there, and not forgetting the loneliness, as in currently i would say its official. whatever that means you might say but those close to me know what i mean. Anywayz i am currently working on launching something special, that Nigerians in Nigeria have always dreamt of, but havent really got the services together with the quality and the price to pay, other issues might be logisitics etc which would apply to the service renderer besides other factors such as payment gateways etc. You might realise that i am not really stating what it is. Well its still under development, and i really want to be fully ready before announcing it officially.

Well i have been doing a lot of Surveys and Research but hopefully by next month it would be fully online. It is even a suprise to my partners :D. Actually the whole idea actually came from my friends, that have always wanted such services. Well then recently i taught, that why not provide it to the whole Nigeria?, instead of just friends only. Well as i said its still kindda confidential now. Stay Tuned, till the launch…............. You would be very excited, that is if you are in Nigeria