A pest in my life.
I have really been having a lot of headaches of recent, on the issue of the Nigerian bloggers network, not because of the listings this time, but because some people think, I might be a possible threat to their portals existence, in the sense of future traffics. I think that shouldnt be a problem, all he needs to do is to work on his online skills in terms of attitude and the way he has choosen to express himself, besides his so called “Leadership” skills which had led to conflicts with his members and other online pals that he tags “Failed Friends” of recent and of the past.
And by that, does it mean, I should be getting nasty comments in my blog from him in relation to old forgetten posts? I have forgotten they even existed!!. Besides he insisting that I should enlist him before in the aggregator, though he does not meet upto the criteria of getting listed, Now, he is asking me to link him from my blog, I said sure (infact I had him linked before), but I am currently busy. But the mails keep on coming and coming. And really they are pissing me off.
This is after the same person calls me a “Mad Man” in his supposed Journal. Why would you want a Mad man to link you? Well I am really tired and fedup of all this rubbish. I had to tell him to “keep off my online portals”, if he cant just, accepts its existence.
I know he said, he was Jelous, but shouldnt it just end there? He is such an idiota and a sadist, if I might call him that, that he wouldnt just stop at anything to discourage me, from whatever I am doing. I am really getting frustrated. He is indeed a pest in my life.
Your blog, you decide who you link. period.
Your forum, you decude how it is run, period.
I don’t need to say more.
Comment by Soul — 9/3/2005 @ 3:02 pm
I hope you are not getting this wrong? This is between me and some guy not some lady :D. Hi Soul How are you doing?
Comment by kayode muyibi — 9/3/2005 @ 3:06 pm
The sky is wide enough for several birds to fly together without actually colliding. That is all I have to say.
Comment by diakim — 9/3/2005 @ 4:56 pm
Thank you Diakim o, me sometimes I really do find it so hard to understand some Nigerians.
I did not have problems telling a lot of friends that want to do the web hosting business that they were always welcome. Infact I do give them tips in that relation. Nigeria has 120 million citizens in Nigeria alone, besides those residing overseas!! how many of this 120million can we provide services to?
And to those that say it is childish, for not mentioning names in my blog. I do respect peoples names, and thus I dont think it is necessary, especially when it comes to online ethics. Its unethical to mention peoples name on your personal blog, when it has to do with personal dissagrements. Its best left anonymous.
I dont intend to belittle my blog because of dissagreements. Its left for you to guess who I am reffering to. If my stance is still childish, and so shall it be.
Comment by kayode muyibi — 9/3/2005 @ 6:36 pm
I think people take this thing to seriously. ok traffic means different things to different people (financial, narcissitic, social concern whatever) and things can get passionate. but who one chooses to link-to/aggregate is totally one’s business. shouldn’t form the bases for aggressive emails and comments towards one’s action.
Comment by obifromsouthlondon — 9/4/2005 @ 5:33 pm
Kayode … you’ve totally misunderstood all my actions and there’s no way I can set you straight. Just like Soul, I just have to laugh when you say these things, because they’re completely untrue. Cheers!
Comment by Seun Osewa — 9/4/2005 @ 10:15 pm
Hmmmmmmm…................... Not true? Well I think me talking extra and bringing proofs is not necessary. I have let it out, and I feel better right now. Honestly. No hard feelings currently, Although there was actually before I posted the entry, but currently, me cool :). Peace.
Comment by kayode muyibi — 9/4/2005 @ 10:25 pm
Did you say pest? The guy is a pain in the ass!
He is an imbecile!
I cannot understand him myself, and would not attempt to do so.
:))
Comment by Dildo — 9/6/2005 @ 3:20 pm
kayode, U misunderstood me, I was saying, no one has the right to demand that you link to them on your blog or site or forum.
Don’t let people try to bully you into linking to them.
Seun, don’t you realise that people are laughing at you?.
Why would you refer want to do anything like me.. didn’t you refer to me as a ‘crazy and troubled lady’. because I wouldn’t contribute to your forum?.
Why wuld you want to do anything like me. Puhlease, I think people are beginning to see that you are a bit disturbed.
You should get some counselling.
Comment by soul — 9/9/2005 @ 9:54 pm
Me and Kayode go way back, and we have frequent misunderstandings. Whenever we’re not getting along, Kayode blogs about it but he doesn’t blog about it when we’re getting along.
For your information,I’ve explained the real reasons for each of my actions, and we’ve settled this latest misunderstanding, so please go back to work, people, and stop making me a celebrity by force!
And don’t forget to visit www.nairaland.com :).
Comment by Seun Osewa — 9/10/2005 @ 12:30 am
haa haa, you are hilarious not in a funny way, in a ‘hospital type’ way.
I’ll remind you….
” Seun Osewa Said,
September 4, 2005 @ 10:15 pm
Kayode … you’ve totally misunderstood all my actions and there’s no way I can set you straight. Just like Soul, I just have to laugh when you say these things, because they’re completely untrue. Cheers!”
You mentioned my name, hence I said what I said.
I don’t really care what you do, I’m not interested. You are a source of amusement however.. soo carry on.
Comment by soul — 9/10/2005 @ 6:32 pm
i hope you don’t go too far to use a pesticide on that pest.
http://www.multidox.net
Comment by felucci — 2/26/2006 @ 9:26 pm