Accepting Critism.
One problem thats is common amongst young entreprenures like me is they cannot accept simple critism. the problem mainly is caused by factors such as personal esteem, ego, and also the ideology that they know it all.
Persoanally, not to brag, i am a person who is really willing to accept any form of critisism whatsoever. i also even love to listen to peoples ideas, plans and even opinions. what i acctually despise is someone thinking i am a very arrogant person and thus when i talk about issues pertaining to what i am doing, what i plan to do, and why i am doing it, people think i am bragging or showing off. the thing about me is i love to share ideas, i want to be a role model, i want to encourage people through my little work, so that they know whether they are lagging behind or even far above. its just my own way of giving out the little i think i can now.
Now back to the problem with people who do not accept critisism, when i tell a friend “hello, your approach is wrong, i doubt progress through such approach”, the first thing the person thinks is oh “this guy is jelous of me, or this guy does not like me making it big”. but lets put it this way, i am an enemy of your success and also i happen to love to advise you on how to do this or how to do that, and also a way to try this and to try that? does that really make sense? i still dont get it. i mean if i say you are doing this wrongly, its for you to change, for you to see my angle of vision, and for you to take it or leave it. but you dont even give me that benefit of understanding because of your myopia angle of looking at things, that anything not comforming to your line of thinking is an enemy or a threat to your progress?
why not just do it in a way more smarter and rewarding. try it out or leave it. i mean if it does not cost you anything try it out. if it does leave it or try to understand the person more and the reason for which that person is trying to enlighten you on things pertaining to the issue in question. you might wonder why i am saying this and why i am saying that. the problem is that many of my so called ex friends, just had this attitude of not accepting critisism that stills bothers me a lot. Progress is life is never achieved through this way of closing the mind and seeing what you only want to see, from what i have experienced from my exposure in life. i only have one thing to say to all those out there who do not accept critisism in one way or the other, open up, see the beauty of critisism, and you would be glad you did.
thats all for now. GOOD day !!